Drawer Door Handles

Drawer Door Handles
Naughty children?

My boys are getting worse by the week. We have been in this rented house since August 2006 and since then we have: closed doors were installed cabinets, pulled the handles of drawers attached to the cabinets, pulled the wallpaper throughout the room (and living room, landing and stairs), destroyed the door of the room, (pulled off), took out the whole game against the cupboard doors destroyed, 2 sets of sofa bases bed, bunk beds and 1, more than two Christmases that I have left all the toys to destroy them all pulled out of the regulating wheel, radiator, vertical blinds destroyed, any suggestion what should I do? one is 10 and one is 4. share a bedroom because its only a 3 bedroom house and my daughter has the other room. This is private rented and we can not afford to lose the deposit if we leave.

What are you doing about it? Do consequences of their actions? Are they consistent and relevant to what they are doing wrong? If they are destroying their rooms, take everything restriction of out bed. Explain to them that are showing respect compliance with their properties and are even able to appreciate what they are going to go without any luxuries. Work on things that earn back one item at a time. Not the same thing with toys. Removes all elements that destroy and let them know that as their behavior improves things will be given back. A part of them "win" things should be back and would include helping to repair the damage. Home limit setting, clear, and the father at home. I do not want to be rude, but it is only doing this because you are leaving them. Talk to them calmly and firmly tell them that from now on this type of behavior stops. No warning, no second chances. Tell them clearly what the consequences for each of their shares, and then start as you mean to go on. If you threaten a punishment, enforce and see through. If you teach your children that you are in control, and start to believe you, things will change, and quickly too. Good luck.